Running the 5K in May 2012!

January 23, 2012

Four years ago this May, I ran/walked a 5K to raise money for the Canadian Diabetes Association (CDA). I’ve signed up to do it again and if you would like to support the cause, I encourage you to follow this link.

My goal is to raise $1,000. Last time, my goal was to raise $250 (the minimum required by the CDA), and thanks to readers of this blog, friends, and family, I was able to raise $793! The minimum I have to raise has doubled to $500, but with hard work I’ll definitely reach the goal. I’m 18% of the way there, actually, thanks to two very generous people in my life.

I’ve been eating a lot of cookies lately, so I couldn’t help but comment on Facebook about the irony of updating about cookie-eating habits and 5K planning in practically the same breath. Even though the money I’m raising is for the CDA and my mom is diabetic, the cause hasn’t turned me into a sugar-shunning person; I do hope it does one day. I was discussing this issue with someone and maybe one day I’ll share what I wrote about my weight journey because I don’t think I’ve ever put such thought into writing about the topic before and I’m really proud of what I wrote. The truth is I still eat more sweets than I should, and I don’t exercise as much as I should. I intend to give myself plenty of time to train for the race so I can beat the time from my first race. I don’t think the CDA will mind taking money from someone who has a soft spot for sweets!

A year and a half ago, I tried a run/walk program and got up to seven minutes of running followed by a minute of walking, repeated three times. It’s been so long that I’d have to start again from the “one minute run, two minute walk” days but I have time. I don’t move fast but I’m hoping using this program on race day along with the adrenaline that’ll come from the race itself and wanting to beat 2008′s time, I’ll finish the race around the 40 minute mark. I’ll be very proud of myself if I can accomplish that and if I don’t, at least I tried and did something for a cause I care about… kind of reminds me of the protest I took part in last week.

Twelve by 2012 recap

January 21, 2012

I didn’t cross every item off my Twelve by 2012 list, but I’m satisfied with my progress. I know if I hadn’t joined the challenge none of these things would have been accomplished in 2011 because I would have just procrastinated on them (and in many cases I did procrastinate, but I got them done just barely on time!).

What I did:

  • buy winter tires for my car Done December 23, after weeks of my dad reminding/nagging me. I resent the almost $600 spent, but appreciate the increased comfort I feel driving on icy/snowy roads!
  • increase my car payments (by making an extra payment for the year or seeing if I can have more added to the bi-weekly payments) Done December 30 (I increased my bi-weekly payments by 21%).
  • buy a GPS system Done December 24 on the early Boxing Day sales online.
  • send out a save the date email or invitations to a Christmas party/gingerbread party/cookie exchange party (can’t decide) at my house Done October 29 via Facebook…the Christmas fête event was held on December 3!
  • email the builder of my house regarding getting touch up paint (I was supposed to follow up on this a year ago…they may not give it to me anymore!) Done October 26. They can’t give it to me anymore because they no longer use paint from that particular supplier…or so they said. I think they’re just mean, to be honest.
  • return the three huge cases of water sitting by my doorstep to the store I bought them from Done November 3 thanks to Ves
  • host the regular Friday night gathering with my friends Done December 30, on the last possible Friday of the year (of course!). We ordered in food and had a very chill time. I need to do this more often.

What I still need to do (maybe):

  • increase my mortgage payments (by making an extra payment for the year or seeing if I can have more added to the bi-weekly payments)

    I need to first check to see if the conditions of my mortgage allow me to make extra payments, and I think I have to search my paperwork for that.

  • find a pretty way to mask the visible electrical cords behind my tv

    I don’t think I’m going to find something pretty that doesn’t look weird, unless I get one of those big wall units for the cords to hide behind so I might take this off the list.

  • call the church back about the volunteering opportunity that I signed up for

    They actually called me back this year, then I called them back and sent them an email. Now they’re waiting for an email from me, telling them about myself. Figuring out what I to put into the email is making me procrastinate on drafting it.

  • hang curtains in the living room and my bedroom (at least)

    I just don’t care enough to make this a priority, and I don’t really want to put any holes in my walls. At almost three years old it’s not a new house anymore but I’m still babying it, apparently!

  • develop a WordPress theme for my GNG blog

    It didn’t happen last year but it will this year. I feel very close to a breakthrough on this front.

I want to get these things done by March 31, 2012.

New Year’s Day 2012

January 9, 2012

The older I get, the more I want to actively mark traditions, especially those related to Christmas and the holiday season. So far I have the following:

  • My Christmas tree goes up on the last weekend of November.
  • I host a Christmas fête the following weekend, for friends, on the first Saturday of December (it might be a bit premature to put this down here since I’ve only hosted one such event).
  • I go to the Christmas Eve service at my church with my family, followed by early Boxing Day shopping that evening.
  • I sleep over at my parents’ place on Christmas Eve (it didn’t happen this year but I slept over on Christmas Day, Boxing Day, and a couple more days).
  • I host my family at my house on New Year’s Day.

This last point also happened for the first time this year. I decided to make a turkey dinner (my first, actually!) I’m embarrassed to admit it but it was also my first time making mashed potatoes (I’m a sheltered flower, yes I am!). Dinner was simple: turkey, stuffing, potatoes, and asparagus.

After waking up at the decadent hour of 11am, I decided to take my turkey out of the fridge, where it had been defrosting for less than 24 hours. It was still frozen. I had to transfer it to a bath in my sink. I had cut up the bread for the stuffing the night before, but it was still pretty fresh and soft, so I had to toast several batches of it in the oven while trying to quick-thaw my turkey.

Let’s talk about stuffing for a moment: I love it, oh so much. I always eat more stuffing than any other thing, and when I’m responsible for setting the table at my parents’ place, I always make sure the stuffing is set in front of me. As much as I love my mom’s stuffing, I was really excited to try out a stuffing recipe from the Food Network booklet my friend and former colleague Gen gave me. The last time I recall seeing the booklet was before my Christmas fête. I calmly checked all the places I thought it should be, then became more frustrated as New Year’s Eve day wore on. I eventually had to give up but I’m still pouting that I couldn’t find it when I needed it. I hope it didn’t end up in my recycling box by accident! My default stuffing recipe came from a cookbook I got from Ves and Rich as a housewarming gift, combined with the vegetables and herbs I recalled my mom including in her stuffing. I did have to call my family and ask them to bring some sage or poultry stuffing because I hadn’t done a complete inventory of my kitchen contents before cooking.

My parents and sister came by after church that afternoon (Brother #1 could not have been convinced to attend and Brother #2 had gone out of town for New Year’s Eve) and my mom proceeded to bustle around my kitchen, helping to get that turkey in the oven as soon as possible (she can’t resist a kitchen) while my dad and sister made themselves comfortable. We had a really relaxing afternoon: my three guests watched a football game and enjoyed some wine and snacks while I surfed the web and ate sugar cookies. Dinner was served at 9pm (thanks to getting the turkey in quite late!). Doesn’t it look good?

I wasn’t kidding about my mom loving the kitchen!

And the best part was that my parents and sister slept over! I was happy to have them over and they planned to sleep over as a surprise to me. And because they knew they were staying over, they could indulge to their heart’s content, stay up late and not rush. Dessert was cheesecake (oh yes, I have to tell you about my cheesecake debacle) with tea and coffee.

My dad usually likes to get a quick start on the day but the next morning even he lounged around chez moi until noonish, or maybe a bit before. My parents left and my sister stayed. The two of us watched a movie (accompanied by tea and more sugar cookies for me!).

It was a really good New Year’s Day and I hope it’ll be a tradition we repeat next year. I learned a lot about cooking turkey dinner too so maybe I’ll have most things done by the time they arrive next year! And hopefully, my brothers will attend next year.

Christmas and Boxing Day 2011

January 6, 2012

Happy New Year! This entry is a bit late but I hope you had a great Christmas—I did! The family (except for Brother #1) attended a special evening program on Christmas Eve called Stranded. I had a lot to do so after doing some Boxing Day shopping online at my parents’ house (more on that later), I went home instead of sleeping over. Having Christmas fall on a Sunday affected our regular routine because we went to church again, this time for 10:00am, came home and had lunch (well I ate a million of the sugar cookies my sister made and a sausage), then sort of just slothed around until dinner time. We didn’t end up opening presents until after dinner on Christmas Day (much later than usual!).

My main gift was a vacuum from my parents and I’m so excited about it because I wasn’t expecting it at all! I’ve wanted a good vacuum since I moved into my own place, and my trusty Consumer Reports guide ranked the Dy.son brand highest in the category I was interested in. However, one of the H.oover vacuums also ranked high (but at a much more palatable cost), and given that I don’t have any pets, I had settled on a H.oover. My mom works in a department store so she called me earlier in December to inquire about the exact name of the vacuum because her colleague who works in the vacuum section said there would be deals in January and would keep an eye out for a deal on my particular vacuum. It was the plan all along for my mom to buy the vacuum for me using her store discount and money I would give her so I thought nothing of her inquiry. I innocently gave my mom the information and when Brother #1 brought up the gift it didn’t even occur to me that it could be for me or be a vacuum. I am quite thrilled!

(In case you’re curious, the word ‘vacuum’ appeared eight times in the above paragraph. You’re welcome. Also, I’m the easiest person to surprise because I have a terrible memory. never expect someone to think of surprising me. rarely wonder why someone’s asking me things; I just give up all the info they’re seeking—and more—most times!).

Brother #1 was home for Christmas after all and as he requested my siblings and I did not buy him gifts, though we did buy stocking stuffers for him. He also had stocking stuffers for us. Things are still not great between us but I was happy that he was around and I tried to bite my tongue as much as possible when he said things that incensed me or when he blatantly tried to draw attention to himself. I succeeded a bit more than half of the time.

No Christmas blog entry would be complete without a Boxing Day recap (every time I’ve talked about Boxing Day I’ve called it Black Friday, incidentally, except in this entry). I love deals to the point of inconveniencing myself for the bragging rights associated with getting a good deal. It probably is a sickness but I’d like to live with it forever and ever if that’s ok.

After the Christmas Eve service, I hurried to my parents’ house to start my Boxing Day shopping. In case you’re unaware, the two big electronic shops in Canada—B.est Buy and Fu.ture Shop—start Boxing Day sales online on Christmas Eve. Brother #2 and I logged in to our accounts for each of the stores just before 8:00pm and waited for the countdown. Once the time hit and after a few glitches to figure out how the interactive online flyers worked, I had two laptops, a digital camera, a GPS (don’t forget my Twelve by 2012 list!), and an antivirus program divided in a shopping cart for each store, and then I entered the lengthy checkout process. I had learned from Brother #1 two years ago that sometimes after waiting an hour to check out your item, you discover that other people beat you to the item and it’s sold out by the time your checkout process is completed. I therefore decided to “buy” two laptops—one from each retailer—and see which one actually makes it. Just like last year with the netbooks, both went through for me so I’ll return one (after checking the specs to see which is the best bang for my buck, naturally). I couldn’t find the particular GPS recommended by Consumer Reports, so I got one that looked good; I’m sure it’ll be fine. I’m afraid to buy another camera, given my history, but I just don’t carry my DSLR around as much as I would if it could fit into my purse.

After opening gifts on Christmas evening, I started to get jittery and antsy. I needed to be in line somewhere, waiting for the doors to open and the mad dash for Boxing Day deals to begin. So, just after midnight, I called the 24 hours Sho.ppers Dr.ug Ma.rt to see if they were open for Boxing Day already. They didn’t answer the phone until nearly 1am and once I discovered they were opened I dusted off my car, drove over there, bought some things, stopped at my house, made two Christmas cards, then drove back to my parents’ house and was in bed before 3am, with lofty goals of waking up at 6:30am to be among the first to get to Walm.art to take advantage of its sales, starting at 7am. Well I slept through the alarm and woke up an hour later than planned. I brushed my teeth and headed to the store and picked up a few things. I proceeded to shop for the next six hours—I still cannot believe I was out for six hours! From Walm.art I went to Chap.ters, then Mich.aels, then I.KEA, then Sho.ppers Dru.g Mar.t (a different location), then Walm.art (again), then a mall (this drained me: so. many. people!), then Pharm.aPlus, then Sho.ppers Dru.g Mar.t (my third location), then another mall (not as crowded but still draining). Then I crashed at my parents’ house.

I don’t know what it is about Boxing Day and Black Friday that gets my adrenaline pumping. I remember driving into the busy mall and entering a traffic jam just to get into the parking lot and being excited, squealing to my sister (over the phone) that I “love this!” (don’t worry, I have a hands-free phone system in the car).

For the rest of the week I revisited most of the stores I had gone to on Boxing Day and picked up a few extra things. I’m most excited about the Christmas craft supplies that snagged; now I just have to remember to start Christmas crafting in October.

**The story of the pictures of my sister and Brother #2, and my mom and I makes me laugh. My sister was sitting on the stairs and the four of us were talking. All of a sudden, Brother #2 hops on my sister’s lap and the way he hopped on just cracked the rest of us up. What else could I do but snap a picture of it and decide to recreate the same thing with my mom. Luckily my mom is very playful and good-natured so we got our picture too.